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Day 3 of 100 Days of Grief

"Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that bring you peace." -Buddha One thing that I've struggled with and I know many others that have miscarried early in their pregnancy is what to call your loss.  Even saying "my loss" sounds wrong to me.  It sounds too inhuman. Today's prompt is about what words you will and won't use when describing your "loss".   I had an amazing general doctor helping me through this whole process.  He is my general doctor and I'll call him Dr. C. for privacy issues.  Dr. C. was the most compassionate and concerned doctor I've ever had.  I've seen him through all three of my miscarriages.  Each time he reminded me that what was happening wasn't my fault and that there was nothing I could have done that would have hurt the baby.  The thing that I really loved about Dr. C. is he that he never called my baby by all the medical terms the ultrasound tech and my OBGYN called her.  Wor